Reclaim Coaching @silas.rebuilt
Reclaim Coaching · Application

RECLAIMApplication

This isn't a form. It's the first step. Answer honestly — I've heard worse. I've lived worse.

What RECLAIM means

I built this framework because I needed it and nobody handed it to me. Every letter is a stage of the work we do together. By the time you hit submit, you've already started. That's on purpose.

R
Recognize
We name what's actually going on. Not the cleaned-up version. The real thing.
E
Expose
We look at what it's costing you — and the lies you've been telling yourself about why nothing can change.
C
Confront
We face what you've been avoiding. What you've tried. Why it hasn't worked. No more running.
L
Lament
We give your grief a name. Most people skip this step. It's the most important one.
A
Anchor
We bring it back to Jesus. Not as a last resort — as the foundation everything else gets built on.
I
Identify
We figure out who you actually are in Christ — not who the pain has convinced you you are.
M
Move
We take the first step. Readiness isn't a feeling. It's a decision. You're making it right now.
From Silas

Hey. I read every one of these myself. No team. No assistant. Me. I went through divorce, grief, losing myself, and running from Jesus before I found my footing. I'm not going to judge what you write here. I'm just going to read it, take it seriously, and reach back out within 48 hours. That's my word.

— Silas
Your Application
Let's start with you.

Answer honestly. There are no wrong answers — only incomplete ones. Takes about 7 minutes. Don't overthink it.

I need at least a first name.
Are you a man or a woman?
How old are you?
R
Recognize
Name what's actually happening
Don't clean it up for me. Say the real thing. I can handle it.
Give me something here — even just a sentence.
How long have you been carrying this?
E
Expose
What it's costing you and the lies keeping you stuck
What is this costing you right now? Check everything that's true.
Could be "I'm too far gone." Could be "I don't deserve help." Could be "this is just who I am now." What's yours?
Take a shot at this one. Even if it's messy.
C
Confront
What you've tried and why it hasn't worked
Therapy, church, just pushing through, podcasts, keeping busy — whatever it's been. Be straight with me about what happened.
Why do you think it hasn't worked?
L
Lament
What you're grieving or carrying
Grief isn't only death. It's a marriage that ended. A version of yourself you lost. A relationship with your kids that isn't what it should be. A dream that didn't happen. What are you carrying?
Take a moment with this one. It matters.
Have you let yourself actually feel this grief?
A
Anchor
Where your faith is right now — honestly
Where are you with Jesus right now?
No right answer here. I've been in every one of these places. Just be straight with me.
Optional. But the more real you are here the better our conversation will be.
I
Identify
Who you want to become
Not perfect. Not fixed. Just — what does the version of you that actually showed up look like?
Give me something here — even one sentence.
A spouse. Your kids. Someone who's waiting for the real version of you to show up. Who are they?
M
Move
Why now and how ready you are
Something brought you here at this moment. What was it?
This one matters. Tell me what brought you here.
On a scale of 1–10 — how ready are you to actually do the work?
Not how bad the pain is. How ready you are to stop avoiding it.
Not ready All in
Last thing
How do I reach you?

I'll get back to you within 48 hours. Not a bot. Me.

I need your full name and a valid email to reach you.

What you share here stays between us.
I'll reach out within 48 hours.

Got it.I'll be in touch.

I'll read what you wrote — all of it — and reach back out within 48 hours.

What you just did took guts. Most people don't make it this far. You did.

"He lifted me out of the pit of despair, out of the mud and the mire. He set my feet on solid ground and steadied me as I walked along."
Psalm 40:2 · NLT